We live in a very mollycoddled society where the slightest bit of discomfort is seen as wrong, but that discomfort is there for a reason. It's supposed to trigger some form of action, some form of change, a realization of a truth - something, and I think the self-help world has you believing that you should be happy all the time.

The society we live in is a very difficult one. There is a lot of pressure to be perfect and do everything perfectly. We are all guilty of it. This is why people find it so hard to be happy all the time. We are always looking for the next solution to make ourselves happy. This is the only way to be... come happy. We look for a new job, a new relationship, a new dress, a new anything. We have been told that if we have everything, we are going to be happy. However, this is not the case. Happiness is about being comfortable with yourself. If you are not happy with yourself, you will never be happy. When we are uncomfortable, we will be looking for ways to make ourselves feel better. This is the only way to find happiness. If we are not happy with ourselves, we will be looking for ways to make ourselves happy. We are all guilty of this. It is very hard to be happy all the time. You will find that happiness comes with some form of discomfort. It is very difficult to live in a society where everyone is trying to be happy all the time. You need to learn to be comfortable with yourself. Learn to be happy with yourself.